I hooked up with a guy at a party last night. He’s usually at the same parties I am because we run with the same crowd, but last night was the first time anything had actually happened. I heard from a mutual friend that he does have a thing for me, and did before we hooked up. I’m not thinking I’m looking for a relationship, and I honestly wouldn’t even mind just hooking up every so often, I just don’t know if I should hit him up or if I should let me come to me. Any advice for a newbie?