So this guy and i have been talking (let’s be real: sexting) and looking back on it I came off like I’m capable of being like a super dom… but I’m really not, I’m way more of a sub than anything else because that’s what i’m used to! Can anyone give me some advice?? I don’t know exactly what to do!
Hey VooDooDoll94,
That is okay! No prob in letting him know how confident you are. Also, props to you for knowing what you like and who you are in bed! No shame!
I’d say initiate with ideas about submission. Say something sexy like, “Getting f***ed from behind turns me on.” or “I’ve always wanted to be tied up and f***ed.” then he’ll start to get a good idea.
You totes still have time to turn the convo around and still be the confident slut he has the hots for!
This is totally fabulous advice!