Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be a webcam model? Why guys send unsolicited dick pics? How a porn star moves on after a breakup? Or how to send that ultra-sexy Snapchat pic to your bae? Look no further, because Raven Hart is back to answer round two of your sex, hookup, and relationship questions! Check out her answers below for all her best advice… and submit your own questions to Raven Hart for the next series!

As a guy, I have a question about nude guy pics. I want to find out once and for all if girls like dick pics or not. When I go on camming websites, girls say I’m hot, but every time I send one to someone on Facebook, I get unfriended and blocked, and they get mad. Are the girls on the video chat websites just playing me to try to get money? I just wanted to ask a female in a neutral setting. Thanks.

Hi Bob,

Let me set the record straight for you. No girl, unless she asks, is interested in seeing your penis. Trust me when I say this! On a video chat site, where sex is the main focus (and models are getting paid) this might be okay. But on Facebook or a regular site, there is no reason to send anyone your nude pictures. This will turn any girl off, and you’ll be thought of as a creep or pervert. Please take my advice on this, trust me!


Help! I’m in college, and my long-distance boyfriend is at home, 3000 miles away from me. I don’t see him for about 4 months at a time.

Any advice on how to use Snapchat to send him slutty pics of me while I’m gone? I’m relatively new to the whole “being a slut” thing, and this is my first boyfriend. I’m still working on my angles.

– Still Learning to be Photogenic.

Hello there Snapchat newbie,

Snapchat is a great way to send your boyfriend naughty disappearing pics of yourself. I’d recommend getting all sexy by doing your hair and makeup, and dressing up in something that makes you feel hot. Then, have fun with yourself!

Move your phone around before taking pics to find your favorite angles, and experiment to see what’s most  flattering. In no time, you’ll find what works for you. (SGP also has a guide on sending sexy Snapchats here!)

Also, have you and your boyfriend tried Skype? It’s a really great way to see each other long distance… and you could really have a lot of fun with that as well. Good luck!


I’ve been thinking about web camming for quite some time, since I already blog about my sex life. But, I have no idea where to begin. What are some tips? Who should I sign up with? What sites pay the best and are the safest? The worst slutty girl problem is when you don’t know what to do about it. Help!

– SluttyB

Hi Slutty B,

I myself cam. I have not used all of the camming sites, but I personally like CamSoda. Some other good sites include MyFreeCams, Chaturbate, Live Jasmine, and Flirt 4 Free. All you need to do is sign up, and get going! You can sign up to be a model on their sites, including Chaturbate and Flirt 4 Free here.

The pay is similar with all of them, and the sites work similarly – but, each has a different type of community and feel to it. So, you’ll just need to try them and see which ones resonate with you. With most sites, the more often you are on, the more money you’ll make. Sometimes, you’ll make a bonus by hitting goals or earn a higher percentage based on time spent on the site. I’d recommend finding out what the prime times are for viewers, and try to be online during those hours. Good luck babe!


Hi there! I was dating a guy for 6 months and he recently broke up with me. I still love him. He said he wasn’t happy anymore and his feelings just slipped away, but I still love him. I don’t know what to do. It was so unexpected. I’ve never had a break up before, even though I’m 19.

How can I get over it? I’m not one of those people that have guys lining up, and I thought I had a real chance at happiness. I’ve been crying non-stop, looking at pictures of him, and listening to our song. I desperately need advice. Please help!

Hi there hopelessly devoted to love,

Breakups can be very hard to deal with, especially in the moment. But, as they say, time heals all wounds… and you will get over him. You are so young, with a long life ahead of you, and many more guys to follow, who you’ll date and fall in love with. You only think you don’t have guys lined up, because your heart is not open to it. The best thing you can do is allow yourself to heal, get out, and have fun with friends. Take your mind off it rather than re-living it by listening to songs and looking at photos. Eventually, you will feel ready to date again, and you will find someone else a better fit and cares about you in return.


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