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Celebrate International Fetish Day!

International Fetish Day is Friday, January 19! What better way to celebrate your favorite fetishes and kinks than with some fabulous gifts that will certainly inspire you in your bedroom, playroom, or dungeon?

What is a fetish?

A fetish is a fixation that needs to be satisfied for a person to get off. Kink, on the other hand, is more of an (often sexual) interest in the same thing. International Fetish Day isn’t just a day for people who like the occasional spanking or role play. It’s a celebration for those who fully embrace this aspect of their sexuality. However, I personally think it’s a fabulous time to get in touch with your kinky side, whether you’re a full on femme domme or just like a little S&M on occasion!

Read all about our favorite fetishes and craziest kinks:

Blindfolds | Bondage | CrossdressingDDlgExhibitionism | FemDomFoot Jobs | OrgiesRimming | Roleplay | Crossdressing

The best way to celebrate…

…is with play time! If you’re a voyeur, get it on in a semi-public place. (It can really be that simple.) But if you require some accessories to really fulfill your desires, here are some of our favorite toys.

Jump to section: Leather | Paddles | Gags | RestraintsPegging & Strap-Ons | Roleplay | Butt PlugsNipple ClampsBlindfolds | Sensation Toys | Aftercare

Leather Lovers

Hell’s Angel Costume

Get it at The White Unicorn for $90.

Open-Crotch Open-Bust String Seducer Teddy

Get it at Wicked Temptations for $37.

Impactful Paddles

Tantus Wham Bam Paddle

Get it at Tantus for $50 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

I already loved Tantus’s super high quality, 100% premium silicone toys, and I knew this paddle would be equally incredible… if only I could get past my beginner’s fear, and accept the harsh sting of silicone.

Fetish Fantasy Gold Pleasure Paddle

Get it at SheVibe for $16 and check out our review!

This is one of the most versatile impact toys I’ve EVER used – you truly can control just how hard it hurts. With the flick of a wrist, you can change the amount of pressure in your hits – anywhere from gentle swats to stinging hard smacks

Sex & Mischief XOXO Paddle

Get it at SheVibe for $11 and check out our review!

It’s flexible, thin, and lightweight, yet still a firm paddle that can pack a nice sting. The “XOXO” design can even mark you with its pattern if hit hard enough!

More Impact Play

Glass Whip

Get it at Filthy Dirty for $50.
15% OFF with code SGP

Magnifique Whip Necklace

Get it at Unbound for $30 and check out our review!
25% OFF anything with code SGP25

This necklace doubles as a flogger, able to tempt and tickle, or punish, whichever fits the mood. Wrapping the neck chain around your wrist or holding it with the opposite hand turns the bar into a handle, making for easily controlled flogging. When trailed across bare skin, the chains will elicit passion and arousal, priming your partner for what comes next – pleasurable pain.

Great Gags

Tantus Beginner Ball Gag

Get it at Tantus for $45 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

I searched for the right size ball, and especially one that was detachable, but the options seemed really slim… until I came across Tantus’s Beginner Ball Gag to review – which is, of course, my new favorite! Tantus can simply do no wrong.

Sex Kitten Silicone Ball Gag

Get it at Luxe Vibes for $25 and check out our review!

This gag is made of my favorite material (so it’s body-safe and easy to clean) – plus has an adjustable strap made of comfortable leather that’s also durable, so you’ll be perfectly silenced. This gag is seriously my new favorite, and if you’re a fan of keeping your mouth occupied and quiet during sex, you’ll definitely enjoy it as much as I have!

Sinful Ball Gag

Get it at Filthy Dirty for $12 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

This gag is great, and if you’re a fan of keeping your mouth occupied during sex, you’ll definitely enjoy it as much as I have!

All Sorts of Restraints

Expandable Spreader Bar & Cuff Set

Get it at Adam & Eve for $50 and check out our review!
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

If you’re as flexible as the average person, this product will probably work great for you! The construction works, its easy to get on and off in the middle of play, it collapses easily for storage, its not hard to set up (though it does take both hands) and the cuffs are comfy and adjustable.

Hot Tie & Cuff Set

Get it at Adam & Eve for $37 and check out our review!
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

Great for adventurous couples looking to add some extra kink into the bedroom, this hog tie and cuff set offers so many levels of enjoyment. Whether you’re wanting to introduce a little light BDSM into your relationship or already an expert at it, this restraint system is the perfect addition to your collection. Soft, fully adjustable cuffs can be linked to a sturdy O-ring, nearby objects, or even each other to create endless possibilities.

Tease Me Silver Handcuffs

Get them at Lovehoney for $10 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGPROBS

Months after getting Lovehoney’s Tease Me Silver Handcuffs, I still love them, use them, and consider them a favorite in my toy collection. I can safely say they’ve held up to some very hardcore wear, and are totally solid. Sturdy, strong handcuffs that are also inexpensive are hard to come by! Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced kinkster, I’d totally recommend these cuffs for all your BDSM fantasies.

Play with Pegging

Unbound’s Give and Take Set

Get it on sale at Unbound for $70 – regularly $290!
25% OFF anything with code SGP25

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit

Get it at Lovehoney for $70 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGPROBS

These sizes were perfect for my partner and I (both anal and strap on beginners). But, if you’re looking for something a bit larger, or are using the strap on with a female partner, you may want to try the Bend Over Intermediate Kit instead – which has dildos with a bit more length and girth. The only thing that would have made these dildos even better would have been a hole in the center to allow for a vibrating bullet – though Tantus has a ton of other dildos that have this awesome feature.

Tantus Starter Dildo

Get it at Tantus for $39 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

The feeling of being filled up but not stretched to my limit was perfect for me and helped me to enjoy this new experience at my own pace and ability.

Roleplay Time

School Girl

Get it at Adam & Eve for $40.
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

Naughty Service Maid

Get it at Adam & Eve for $37.
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

Naughty Nurse

Get it at Adam & Eve for $35.
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

Crotchless Cop

Get it at Upscale Stripper for $23.

Badass Butt Plugs

Tantus Twist

Get it at Tantus for $42 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

Its design and size are a little more intense than that of a beginner plug. Measuring in at 5 inches long (though the twisting screw design and insertable area take up only about two-thirds that length) and 1.3 inches in girth – it’s definitely larger than a finger but still a bit smaller than most penises. If you’re already comfortable with butt plugs, are experienced with some anal play with a partner, or are just feeling a tad adventurous, the Twist is an excellent toy to check out!

Tantus Perfect Plugs

Get it at Tantus for $34 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

They are made of super high-quality premium silicone, and are incredibly comfortable and pleasurable. If you’re a newbie to anal toys – or are simply looking for the perfect anal plug to thrust, vibrator, or wear all day – I’d absolutely recommend Tantus’s Perfect Plugs!

Icicles #48 Glass Butt Plug

Get it at Lovehoney for $30 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGPROBS

This pretty plug is everything you could ask for. It’s perfectly designed for comfort and pleasure, with a cute flowered base that makes it seem much more innocent than it is… it’s also easy to clean, fabulous for temperature play, and exceedingly comfortable (even for a beginner). If you’re looking for the perfect plug to add to your collection, with a touch of girly bliss, this is a must-have.

Naughty Nipple Clamps

Bijoux De Nip Feather Clamps

Get them at Filthy Dirty for $24 and check out our review!
15% OFF with code SGP

These seductive tweezer-style nipple clamps are well-designed with high-end materials, and a strong design that is as sturdy as it is beautiful. It’s no doubt that Bijoux de Nips’ unique accessories and sensual cosmetics exist in a realm all of their own, delighting romantic lovers and luxury kinksters alike. For the girl who loves luxury and wants some gorgeous nipple adornment in the bedroom that can provide pleasure and pain simultaneously, these clamps are simply perfect!

Fetish Fantasy Gold Feather Nipple Clamps

Get them at Adam & Eve for $13 and check out our review!
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

The screw-style clip to tighten the clamps make me feel like a real BDSM badass. I’d give these clamps a solid A. They’re perfect for a BDSM beginner who wants a clamp that can be easily adjusted and still look awesome.

Breathtaking Blindfolds

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Satin Blindfold

Get it at SheVibe for $12 and check out our review!

This blindfold is smooth, comfortable, easy to use – and affordable!

Soft Blindfold

Get it at Eden Fantasys for $11 and check out our review!

It’s a simple, easy, and comfortable blindfold that’s great for a variety of sensory play, and could even be used as a sleep mask. It’s great for a beginner or anyone who’s interested in kink play, without the harsh confines of more restrictive sensory gear.

Create A Sensation

Fetish Fantasy Wartenberg Wheel

Get it at Adam & Eve for $10 and check out our review!
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

With light application, the wheel gives a tickling, tingly sensation, while harder pressure causes mild pain. The dual-edged side of the toy is great for creating a scraping sensation. It’s all very mild and perfect for introducing someone into the world of sensation and pain play. The metal material is also fabulous because it can be heated with care or cooled to add some temperature play fun.

Frisky Feather Duster

Get it at Adam & Eve for $10.
50% OFF 1 item + FREE Mystery Gift with code AFFHOT12

Don’t Forget Aftercare

Taking care of your partner (or being taken care of) after playing is essential. Read all about it here, and then start making your own aftercare kit with products like these.

Snacks

Get it at Amazon for $20.

Hydration

Get it at Amazon for $11.

Hot/Cold Pack

Get it at Amazon for $8.

First Aid Kit

Get it at Amazon for $16.

Blanket

Get it at Amazon for $15.

Have a safe, sane, and consensual International Fetish Day!

crazyandbitchy // Editor

Part time nice girl, full time bitch. Moved back home after college, but still remains a party girl at heart. Can often be found sipping cheap wine, making out with her latest Tinder match, reading romance novels, or blowing up Twitter. Lover of carbs and outspoken female pop stars. Hater of Candy Crush Saga invites on Facebook.

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