Buy The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas!

I love directions! A handbook, guidelines, illustrations – anything to help take the guesswork out. Sex is a boundless universe. Which is exactly what makes it so spectacular! But also why it can sometimes be difficult to navigate. You might not know where to begin, you and your partner could be in a bit of a rut. Or, even if you have tons of experience, you’re curious about exploring different types of play and activities. The learning is never over… even as an expert!  Sometimes you just wish there was a guide book or something to turn to for instant inspiration. Well, The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas by Leja and Luka, the creators of the blog Spices of Lust, brilliantly eases the pressure by laying it all out for you in a beautifully illustrated guide filled with creative ways to get intimate with a partner, from clever date ideas to role-play scenarios, and even bondage positions.

Erotic Ideas, Illustrated 

Leja and Luka were inspired to create the book while on their own journey to deepen their connection and improve their relationship. Born from their own exploration, they created a book with 186 erotic concepts, scenes, and playful suggestions all beautifully and tastefully illustrated by artist Gema Ledesma.

Leja and Luka didn’t just create a rolling list of different sexual positions, like you may find in some illustrated guides. They went beyond to focus on the real foundations of physical, emotional, and psychological intimacy at all levels of play and connection. Proving that it’s not just about physical acts, Leja and Luka prioritize consent, safety, and aftercare from the beginning.

 

 

“Consent is always absolutely vital. In fact, it is the most important thing to establish before even thinking about anything else”

 

They put a clear emphasis on enthusiastic consent and show how simple it is to incorporate before and during sex. There’s no excuse for not getting consent, and this book expertly shows how it doesn’t impede on the mood of the moment. 

The book also discusses the basics of safety and aftercare, especially if you are exploring bondage or BDSM play. Both are rooted in open communication with your partner, setting boundaries, and being aware of what the other person is experiencing. Remember, this book is really more of an introduction to these areas. If your interest is piqued, you absolutely should do more in depth research to ensure you and your partner’s safety and refine your techniques. 

 

 

Exploring a Wide Array of Play

The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas is broken down into four convenient sections; Date Ideas, Kinky Sex Ideas, Role-Play Scenarios, and Bondage Positions. In the first section, they cleverly take what would normally be G rated date ideas, and give them a provocative twist.  For example, gaming together can be taken to a new level of sexy competition. The “loser” pleases the winner. But are there really any losers with their list of erotic penalties and prizes? Another concept incorporates academic pursuits – like learning a language. Remember the illicit thrill of learning naughty words when you were younger? Now imagine how titillating it would feel to use sexy word play in a new way. They’re all simple ideas that anyone can try, and they’ll easily free your imagination to come up with your own sexy version of everyday activities. You don’t always have to do something wild to rejuvenate the bond with your person. Simply eroticizing our daily routines can do the trick!

Of course, there are even more kinky activities included if that’s more your speed. Leja and Luka suggest going to a sex chat room and placing your evening in the hands of a virtual stranger. You can even take it a step further by letting them watch via webcam. The kink ideas range from very tame to more intense, and everything from anal to erotic electrostimulation is included. For the more adventurous activities, Leja and Luka include clickable links so you can access further information.

 

 

Then, we enter the limitless world of role play. There is quite a generous compilation of prompts in the book to spark your erotic imagination and play. With such variety, you’ll have no problem finding one that piques your interest. The book features classics like student-teacher, boss-employee, and doctor-patient. For more fanciful folks, there are storylines incorporating aliens, elves, and orgasm gladiators! It’s really perfect if you want to give role playing a shot, but are having a hard time thinking up appealing scenarios or want to try something completely new. 

The last section takes us through some beginner bondage positions. Their realistic and approachable illustrations push away the more sensational stereotypes that are unfortunately associated with this kind of play, to accurately depict achievable positions with little gear. All of the examples come with a brief description, but don’t delve into step by step instruction. It’s designed for you to use as a starting point and do more research into the details of play, including rope play, knots, and safety, before giving them a try. They do offer some ways to adapt positions if you don’t have the specific gear or if you aren’t too flexible. Lots of the examples also incorporate toys, so there really is a great variety. 

At the end, you get a comprehensive list of toys, gear, lube, and costumes that compliment all of the prior concepts. So when you find an idea that you want to try, you have recommendations for potential supplies to enhance your experience right there. They even have discounts codes for a few websites, which is an awesome bonus! 

 

 

My Thoughts 

The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas is an excellent collection of tips and ideas that any couple can bring into their sex life. It’s a perfect place for beginners interested in kink or BDSM to start, and a great creative resource for couples that feel like they need to change things up in the bedroom. I really enjoy the variety, not just in the content, but also in the illustrations. They embrace bodies of all different types and ethnicities, white really adds to the inclusive feeling of the book.

Leja and Luka do address that their book is heterosexual-facing in the first few pages, mentioning the fact that we should all be open minded and accepting of others. All of the ideas listed in the book can really be adapted to any couple. However, I think it would have been easy to fortify that message by including a few illustrations of LGBTQ couples. They did such a great job of showing diversity in body types and skin tone; so, including more than heterosexual couples would have fit with their ethos and suggestions seamlessly. 

Overall, the book is loads of fun, educational, and approachable! It would be a great addition in any relationship. You can have lots of fun just scrolling through and deciding what to try for your next date night. Click here to purchase you digital copy of The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas. It’s downloadable as pdf, mobi and epub formats, and can be viewed on a PC, mobile phone or any eBook reader. It’s only $20 and you can use the discount code SGP for $5 off!

 

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