How to Find Partners for a Threesome, and the 5 Stages of Communication

Threesomes can be a deliciously erotic experience, but as you bring your desires from fantasy to reality, keep in mind that chemistry and communication are the keys to a pleasurable experience.

From sharing desires with new partners, to ensuring that everyone leaves feeling happy, heard, and satisfied – here’s a responsible approach to having the threesome you’ve always fantasized about.

1. First, get clear on your own desires

Whether you’re solo or with a partner, ask yourself what you want from the experience, how you want to feel, what type of arrangement would work best for you, and the role you want to play in the dynamic.

2. Next, find the right connection

Get on Feeld and match with couples or singles who share your desires. Connect on shared interests, sex-positive values, and an open-minded approach to sexual exploration. Play is often smoother when you have chemistry and can laugh in the moment. Download Feeld for free here!

 

 

3. As you chat, express your desires & boundaries

Comfort and communication are key. Have a conversation about your desires, boundaries, and limits. Make sure everyone is on the same page about the vibe and experience you want to create together.

4. When you play, be mindful in the moment

Make sure everyone’s desires and limits are honored. Try not to leave anyone out. If you’re a couple, remember to treat your third as your special guest star with their own desires. Don’t treat them like a prop to your fantasy. 

5. Remember, aftercare is for everyone

After play, make time to connect in the moment and check in on how everyone’s feeling. If you’re a couple, have some personal items like a towel and toothbrush handy for your guest and check in the next day to make sure everyone had a good time. 

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