This year, we’re celebrating our site’s three year anniversary! We had another incredible year of awesome posts from our staff, writers, and guest contributors! (You can even submit your own writing here, anytime!)
In 2016, we covered everything from steamy sex tips, to hook up advice, to feminist theory, pop culture, politics, entertainment health & beauty, and beyond… and now, we’re tallying up the views to let you know which posts were your absolute FAVORITES!
We’ve compiled our Top 10 Best Posts of 2016 – based on your views (over 3.58 million of them this year)!
Most women can’t climax without clitoral stimulation, and That Cat position totally solves that dilemma. The Coital Alignment Technique (The Cat) is a variation of missionary that directly stimulates the clitoris, giving this traditionally bland position a big boost of pleasure. Women only have a few nerve endings in their vaginas, and usually they are located within the first two inches. (Imagine how much more child birth would hurt if the vagina was jam-packed with feeling!) So, for many women, intercourse alone is simply not enough to orgasm. But, with positions designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, sex becomes an orgasmic treat rather than just going through the motions. Certainly better than missionary, we’re willing to bet that The Cat is one of the best hands-free, clitoral pleasure positions out there.
2. The Best Sex Positions for Beginners
Have you ever wandered into the sex portion of your local bookstore to look at those encyclopedias of sex positions? If you haven’t, and you’re a newbie at this whole sex thing—don’t. Try these positions instead. The great thing about any of these positions is that there are endless variations to try and they’re super easy to mix and match with one another when you want to change it up a bit. They never go out of style and, honestly, most people will fall back on at least one of these positions no matter how many other crazy positions they try. Whether you’re a total newbie or just don’t have that much experience, maximize these positions for your ultimate pleasure potential!
As many sluts do, I see my body as a playground. A playground for me and whoever I permit to view it. Therefore, like any playground mine would not be complete without decorations; graffiti if you will. Tattoos and piercing are often our preferred decor. I have an itty bitty tattoo that does not make me cool or qualify me as a sexy tattoo lady, but I do have some badass piercings!
In this article, I hope to share with you what I have experienced with these piercings – both during sexy time and just in plain old life – so that you can make an informed decision if you choose to get a piercing to increase your pleasure, and in all aspects of your piercing’s life.
As you may or may not know, there are lots of horny people in the world. And I mean A LOT. In my experience, it’s a seemingly endless supply of people desperate to do some form of genital smushing. This is doubly true online. You don’t even have to be looking for sexy times, and then suddenly you will find yourself with a lap-full, asking if you prefer blondes or brunettes. And maybe asking for your credit card number too, but that’s for people who enjoy spending money (fine, yes, I like spending money. I’m just too poor to afford it). So the question is: Where do I go to find the other (cheap) horny people? There must be somebody out there who would be willing to sext my glorious ass.
In this award-winning post, we covered literally everything you’ve ever wanted to know about giving the perfect blow job! This post includes details about the basics, how to handle personal preferences, how to use your hands, what to do with your teeth, how to handle his balls, how to deep throat, if you should spit or swallow, and how to give it a personal touch. Once you’re done reading, you’ll be able to give the best blow job EVER! This was also our 2nd most popular post last year!
So you meet this guy and he’s everything you would ever want: strong, sexy, adorable, funny, smart… the whole package. You’re getting on great and you start making out. And you’re like, “Wow, this is gonna happen.” And happen, it does. You start touching each other, your shirt comes off, his shirt comes off. Next is the bra. Then the pants. And then, you realize… his dick is HUGE. Maybe it’s long. Maybe it’s wide. Worse – maybe it’s both. You have this moment when you’re like, “This is full on porn star dick. I can’t even deal. Like, what the fuck am I supposed to do with all of this?” Well, we’re here to tell you…
7. Her Best Sex
Once you get good at having orgasms on your own, and bring those same skills and techniques to your partner, you can turn up the heat with some hot sex positions that are more likely to stimulate you in the right spots, and give you the pleasure you’ve been craving. Here are some sex positions that can increase your chance of reaching orgasm, because sex should always be orgasmic for both sides!
8. It’s Going Down, Sluts Yelling Tinder
So it sounds like an awesome idea in theory, but once you get to using it, and talking to or meeting people, things can get a little weird. Weird in both good and bad ways. With a little practice, you’ll be a pro at using this app and getting what you want out of it. Believe it or not, there are some guys on the app who are looking for a potential relationship. There are also guys who want a one night stand and to never have to talk to you ever again. On the other hand, there are guys who don’t know what they want, or what you want.
Spooning is the perfect blend of passion and intimacy. It combines the body-to-body, side-by-sidecloseness of romantic sex positions, with the power and excitement of going at it from behind. Meanwhile, both of you are comfortable lying down, and neither person is totally “in power”. Rather, both of you are moving in tandem to give you the ultimate pleasure. Whether you’re into clitoral stimulation or g-spot penetration, Spooning will hit your favorite spots and allow both of your hands to roam all over your body. Meanwhile, his and your hands have direct access explore your hotspots, and you can even guide his hands if he’s not hitting it quite right. If you’re looking to try anal, this is the perfect position to get started with. With some easy entry, a lot of comfort, and plenty of closeness to keep going slow – anal sex is much easier.
he term is sometimes thrown around willy-nilly, without much real meaning attached. Often, it is the first thing people seem to mention when anything refers to anything kinky… and depending on who you talk to, responses to those four letters can invoke reactions from horror to shock to amazement. But what exactly IS BDSM? What do those letters mean? What do you do if you want to try it? What should you try first? I’ve decided today to share some of the most frequently asked questions with you, along with some helpful, researched answers.
Honorable Mentions to…
our posts that ranked high in our reader favorites, even if they didn’t make the Top 10!
- If I Woke Up With a Penis by Asa Akira
- Penis Pro: A Slutty Girl’s Guide to Dicks
- Conquering Cowgirl with Confidence
- The Slutty Girl’s Guide to Squirting
- The Slutty Girl’s Guide to Dirty Talk
- The Slutty Girl’s Guide to Facials
- The Perfect Panties for Every Occassion
- The Small Penis Survival Guide
- The Slutty Girl’s Guide to Pleasurable Anal Sex
- Virginity: The Good, The Bad, and The Horny
- 6 Sex Positions the Increase Intimacy
- 5 Tips for a Great Friends With Benefits Relationship
- The Ultimate College Bucket List
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Happy New Year!