Strap ons can sometimes be tricky business. Putting them on, adjusting them, and lining them up just right so that both partners can get pleasure. Particularly for the giving partner, pleasure can be a challenge. If your strap on has a vibrating bullet, you have to make sure it’s in just the right place. If it isn’t, you might crave additional stimulation that your toy just can’t provide. Enter the Realdoe Feeldoe Double Ended Dildo by Tantus. This harness free strap on allows the giving party to have internal stimulation, so much so that the toy is actually secured to the wearer via the internal portion. This dildo is one of a kind, eliminates the need for a harness, and even provides g-spot stimulation. It’s totally unique, and if you’re a strap-on lover, you totally have to try it. Read our Realdo review below!

Note: The Realdoe Feeldoe is no longer available. We recommend the Desire Strapless Strap on instead.

How to Wear the Realdoe Feeldoe Dildo

The Realdoe Feeldoe has one end that the wearer inserts into their vagina (or rectum if you’re adventurous), and another phallic end that is the traditional dildo. The smaller end of the Feeldo acts as a harness, all while providing g-spot stimulation. The connector between the small end and the phallic end even provides clitoral stimulation for the wearer. It even has a spot for optional vibrator insertion. This design is totally unique, and provides both partners pleasure with minimal effort or adjustment. It’s incredibly functional, perfectly sized, and surprisingly comfortable to wear. I also love how quick it is to get started. You don’t have to worry about figuring out the position of the harness, stepping in, strapping up, and adjusting. You just insert the small end of the Feeldoe, and you’re ready to play! As you move and thrust, the smaller end rocks inside you, massaging your g-spot. It also makes for a totally hands-free experience, so you’re free to use your hands elsewhere!

How to Use the Feeldoe Dildo

Using a strap on is, admittedly, a skill. For a first time user, you have to get well acquainted with your harness and comfortable with thrusting, all while reading the needs of your partner. Getting used to the Feeldoe dildo is also a bit of a skill, though it might not be perfect for all body types and preferences. You might find that the Feeldoe is harder to control than your typical harness because it’s attached to your body in a new way. Since it is held in place by your own body, you’re gonna need some pretty strong PC / kegel / anal muscles to hold this lovely dildo steady. If you’re weak down there, sex with the Realdoe won’t be as hands-free as intended. Keep doing your kegels to ensure you can get as much control as you desire. If you want some extra control, you could still use this dildo with a harness. You won’t get the super-quick-and-easy set up, or the feeling of a harness-free romp, but it will still give you the internal sensations.

Depending on your body type, you might also find that the smaller end of the Feeldo dildo just isn’t right for your anatomy. Although it was a good fit for my g-spot, other Realdo reviews have commented that it just didn’t quite hit the mark. The internal sensation was still there, but it wasn’t the pin-point stimulation of their g-spot that they were looking for. You might also find that the small end of the toy is bulky or too big. Again, I didn’t experience that issue personally, but it has been mentioned elsewhere – so if you’re not accustomed to mid-size toys, you might need a little extra water-based lube to get the Feeldoe dildo inserted and comfortable.

What is Feeldoe?

My favorite part about Tantus – aside from the phenomenal designs, friendly staff, and fabulous sales – is their dedication to only making toys with 100% Pure Silicone. All of Tantus’s toys are made from Tantus’ unique blend of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone, which is known to be one of the safest and highest quality materials available for sex toys. This means that all of Tantus’s toys are hypoallergenic, non-toxic, phthalate free, odorless, boilable, bleach-able, and dishwasher safe. The Feeldoe is  designed to be both body safe and last a lifetime with proper care. Although it can be a bit of a hair, lint, and dust magnet – Tantus toys are easy to care for. You can simply use warm water and antibacterial soap for a clean between uses – or bleach, boil, or throw your toy in the dishwasher for a deeper clean. Just remember not to use silicone lube, as it could degrade the material. Water-based lube only!

Check out our other Tantus Toy reviews!

Go Strapless with Realdoe Feeldoe

The Realdoe Feeldoe Double Ended Dildo is by far one of the most unique dildos I’ve seen, especially for partnered play, and especially in regards to strap ons. While the design might not be right for everyone, it worked really well for my partner and I, and I especially loved using it with a harness for extra control and comfort. It gave me the additional sensation I crave and made our experience feel even more connected. I’d highly recommend it to anyone who’s into strap-on play, or even someone who’s looking for their first partner toy!

Note: The Realdoe Feeldoe is no longer available. We recommend the Desire Strapless Strap on instead.

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