When you’re giving a blow job, you know what you’re doing and you’re good at it! There are many things you can do to please him but here are seven steps to truly make his toes curl.

1. Start off by teasing him!

Although he may be ready for you to swallow every last inch of his manhood, teasing him slowly first will make him want you even more. If he tries to push your head down, don’t let him, he will thank you in the end! When men get turned on they’re ready to get off but it’s up to us to show them that they really want to be teased.   

Teasing is very important in sex. It’s part of the foreplay, it can get you more turned on so when you finally orgasm the orgasm is so much stronger. Noone wants it to be over when it’s just starting anyways.

2. Pay attention to the dangly bits.

That’s right. Before even touching his penis, lick the boys. Flick your tongue on his balls just like you like him flicking your clitoris. It’s the same concept. The stimulation you get when he flicks his tongue on your clitoris is similar to the stimulation he gets when you flick your tongue on his balls. Suck one ball into your mouth and if you’re up for it, try both. He’ll hardly be able to contain himself.

Even if he hasn’t told you he wants you to; suck his balls. I once heard someone say “we’ve been together for six years and she sucked my balls for the first time the other night!” I wasn’t sure if I wanted to high-five him, give him a hug or cry a little bit for him! This poor man was so upset that he had to go six years without getting his balls sucked. Then again, he never asked her to do it either so how could she know?

When you’re done sucking his balls, lick the very bottom of his balls, all the way up to them, up to the underside of the penis. It sounds like a simple task and it truly is but he will definitely beg you to do it more often! They love you licking every bit of what they have to offer you.

3. Roll your tongue around the head of his penis.

He will likely have a little bit of pre-cum coming out and even if you don’t swallow don’t be afraid to lick and suck the tip. It’s not much and will definitely make his toes curl (a couple of days later, you can tell him you like sucking the cum off of him which will definitely turn him on again). Men like it when we like the taste of them and when we swallow.

Remember, paying too much attention to the head can make him cum before we’re done with the rest of these steps.

Even though he might be okay with finishing at this point, remember you have to tease, tease, tease. You need to get his blood pumping more before you let him have his big finish. The more you tease, the better the ending will be for both of you.

4. Use your teeth.

Now, you’ve always been told that “teeth is a no-no on the man bits” and even if you tell him “hey I want to use my teeth on your penis” he will tell you no way! So just surprise him at the moment when he’s so stimulated he will actually, believe it or not, like it.

Just lightly graze your teeth over the tip.

Think about when you see a cute guy in the bar and you lightly bite your lip to get his attention, this is the motion you want to make on the head of his penis. Enough to drive him wild but not enough to scare him or hurt him. After you nibble on the tip give him a little more of what he’s been wanting and suck him hard and fast while holding the shaft down. Again, not for too long. He will love this sensation because there are so many nerves in the head of his penis that he will cum so fast you won’t get to finish what’s left. After doing the steps above, it’s time to truly give them what he’s been wanting.

5. Slide your mouth down while you grab his groin.

All of the teasing you’ve been doing and the sensations we’ve been creating is for this moment right here. Enjoy the loud moan you’ll get out of him (even if he usually isn’t a moaner) while he grabs the back of your head and you’ll feel like your the queen of giving blow jobs.

6. Get with it already.

Even though you’re feeling pretty great right now you aren’t done. You’ve teased him enough. Give him a hard blow job; fast, wet, sloppy, include your hands and grab his balls. Just when he’s about to cum in your mouth, lean back and finish him off with your hand that way the hot jets can land on your naked tits. Bite your lower lip when he’s landing on you. He’ll absolutely love it.

Why do men like to see their cum all over your body? It’s a way for them to know you aren’t “afraid” of their jizz, you aren’t afraid to get messy and they think it’s super hot. They aren’t afraid of their own jizz and they don’t want you to be either.

7. Leave the lights on.

Imagine him seeing everything you’ve just done; men are visual and he will think about this for weeks. You’ll feel sexier and it will drive him mad. He will beg you to do it time and time again.