The Tease Me Handcuffs are relatively standard cuffs, with two adjustable wrist cuffs attached by a chain, and two keys. Each cuff has an emergency, quick release valve and keyhole. The release valve, a safety mechanism, is a small latch that is easy to reach on each of the cuffs which opens the cuffs automatically. This is great if you need to get out in a pinch, lose the key, or in the case of any other emergency. If you prefer the intense mind game of not having a quick release, there is a small latch that can be moved to “STOP” to prevent the use of the quick release. This is optional and can be reversed, so if you lose the keys you can still use these handcuffs.

The Experience

I have a confession: I am really rough on my toys. I like to use them and abuse them until I break them, including handcuffs. In fact, the first pair I ever bought (as a teenager in a gag gift shop), broke the very same night, when they snapped right open and one half flew across the room during play. Buzzkill… but also a makeshift applause that we were so rough, we broke handcuffs. Needless to say, I was ready to put these bad boys to the ultimate test with some harsh wear. I was happy to find that they were definitely up to my standards. Although they were inexpensive, they are not flimsy or cheaply constructed. They went through some hard wear during our play and didn’t break, snap, or budge. They were very sturdy, and are strong enough to handle even the harshest wear. I loved how these cuffs were so easily adjustable. I have tiny wrists (5 inches around), so these might be snug on larger wrist sizes. For me, though, this size was perfect. I like how I can adjust them comfortably, or tightly, depending on my desires. They click shut to multiple levels, and are impossible to slip out of (unless you deliberately pull the release valve).

Also, I always appreciate a quick release valve. Although this might be a con to some, it really helps me feel safe and secure that I would be able to release myself in case something goes wrong. Even in intense bondage play (pornography, play parties), there is always some kind of quick release mechanism – although it is not always accessible to the wearer. In couple’s play, I think safety is very necessary, in case some emergency happens to the person in control. In some more advanced bondage play scenarios, the sub might be a brat trying to escape out, but for general purposes I always prefer something I can get out of if absolutely necessary. On another safety note, I would not recommend using metal handcuffs on your ankles; it could be very painful, dangerous, and potentially damaging. There are plenty of Cuff and Tether sets out there that are much better suited for that.

The Metal