Let’s face it, a lot of men are into feet. I, myself have been with two men that were really into my feet. A foot fetish, not anything to be ashamed of. It is on par with different kinks like BDSM or role play. In fact, it’s one of the most popular fetishes! I was willing to learn how to give a foot job, but I had absolutely no idea what I was doing (at first). Thankfully, I had a partner that was willing to teach me what to do with (and to) a man who liked feet. Today, my method is a sure-fire kinky way to get your feet-loving man off via foot job.

1. Lube, lube, and more lube!

I know that this seems like a weird thing to put as my first tip for a foot job, but I swear it’s important. Whenever a sensitive part of a body meets a part of someone else’s, friction is created. Trust me, friction on your feet does not feel good (let alone friction on your partner’s penis). I recommend a water-based lube as it will last a long time without getting your feet too sticky, and it will allow your feet to glide over your partner’s penis. Apply it liberally to wherever the friction is going to occur. The lubricant will make the experience much more pleasurable for both of you.

2. Keep your feet together.

The easiest way to give a foot job is the one where you keep your feet together. My man always seems to like it when I put his penis in the crook of my feet where my toes and the balls of my feet meet. There are other ways to give a foot job, but this way allows for plenty of toe wiggling.

3. Don’t forget the toe wiggling.

Toe wiggling is a sure-fire way of getting your feet-loving man going. The men that I have been with who were into feet loved it when I wiggled my toes while giving a foot job. As you are moving your feet on his penis, wiggle your toes. It gives him a different sensation, and something extra to look at.

4. Move your legs too!

A good foot job is all in how you move your legs. If you move your legs at the hip it will give you a better range of motion and will allow you to be able to go at it longer. You will get tired, but not as fast if you move from the hips.

5. If you get tired, have him help you.

If you get tired from moving your legs like this (I do pretty frequently), have him do it for you. There is something very sexy about watching his muscles tense as he goes to town on your feet. Letting him do it also lets him go at his own pace, which shows you what he likes.

If you follow these tips, then you will be able to knock your first foot job out of the water. A tip that I always like to relay on top of this is that communication is key. If you don’t know if he’s going to like something, you should ask him. He should also relay the same courtesy to you. A couple who communicates in the bedroom is one that is going to have a better relationship overall.