Everyone likes to be a little flirtatious, and use that to their advantage to get on that special someone’s mind. Sending a well-thought-out SnapChat is a fabulous way to break the ice, or heat things up, without being too forward. It instantly puts you in that special someone’s mind, without being too obvious or coming across as trying too hard (that is, if you’re doing it right). If you’re looking to get that flirtatious vibe out there without coming off too strong, sending a seductive Snap should be your go-to tool. It’s personal, discreet, and totally casual.
Before you go ahead and send that full frontal (jk… you should never do that.) read up on the best practices of making your Snap as sexy, sensual, and seductive as possible. (Don’t worry, we’ve outlined all the details below!)
Is He Worth SnapChatting?
After you download SnapChat and get acquainted with it (but let’s be real, who isn’t a SnapChat Pro by now), you’re ready to send your first scandalous photo – even if for only one-second. Having your “boy toy” as a friend is step one. If he’s in your phone contacts, you can easily add him – and he’ll likely get a notification. That’s the perfect opportunity to send a random “Hey what’s up?” Snap with a silly face, casually showing cleavage. (You want to look good obviously, even though you’re “trying” to look stupid.) That’s a great ice breaker, and will probably start a random Snap conversation that you can turn into something naughtier later.
If you don’t want to be that direct just yet, OR if he didn’t respond to your first Snap (like a douchebag), you can casually let him know you’re having a good time or doing something interesting by adding it to your story. Then, everyone on your friends list will see. It’s not guaranteed that he’ll even look at your story (maybe he’s not active on SnapChat, isn’t interested in Stories, or just doesn’t care about yours). But if he DOES respond, you’ll know he’s been curious and thinking about you… which is a good sign! Start up that Snap convo, and see how it goes.
If you send him an initial Snap (or two), and he doesn’t respond (ever) it’s time to ditch this dude! Maybe he’s still into you and wants to chat in person, but if he’s not returning your Snaps, don’t waste your time there. If he has responded to your Snaps before, but all of a sudden he doesn’t reply… maybe he’s busy or something. Try again another time. But, if it starts to become a habit, take the hint – and make sure he gets bumped off your favorites list.
Sending a Sexy Snap
With every seductive picture comes great skill behind the camera. Taking a picture on SnapChat doesn’t take a lot of work. It just takes the right angle and filter. Flaunting your best asset in a casual way is the ultimate opportunity to make sure your Snap counts for the few seconds it’s displayed. Here are some of the poses that will attract his eye, and keep your Snap lingering on his mind long after it’s disappeared!
The Cleavage Shot
The go-to, basic, cleavage shot is always a winner. It’s working with what guys know and love, and it’s easily accessible without coming off sleazy or attention seeking. It’s simple enough to seem natural, yet risqué enough to leave them wanting more. Don’t make it obvious by pressing your boobs together with your elbows, or wearing a ridiculously low cut shirt. Just pick a nice push up bra, a normal shirt, and get your cleavage in the picture. Simple, casual, and effective.
The Lounging Shot
You can easily get a conversation going with a lying in bed, jacuzzi, or bathtub picture. This hints that you wouldn’t mind if he was there, and that you’re happy to give him a little sneak peek to let him imagination run wild. Rest assured, he’ll be interested in seeing more of you. Tease these shots with your legs, body covered in bubbles or sheets, or your hand caressing your hip, stomach, or collarbone. This is a low-risk way to be super sexy and leave him wanting more.
The Full Body Shot
Another low-risk option is the full-body mirror shot. This especially works great if you’re already in a kick-ass outfit and are ready to go out. You’re casually sharing your hot look, while giving him something to think about that night. If you’re looking for something more casual, you can’t go wrong with your favorite pair of shorts, a skirt, or your yoga pants with a well-fitted t-shirt or tank top. This gives your body a gorgeous, flattering figure while giving him a glimpse to what he may see if he were with you in person. Angle yourself in a slight angle to the mirror, with a well-placed arm. It’s all about the angle! Butts and boobs are two of men’s favorite parts of women, so if you can get the silhouette of both in the picture, use it to your advantage.
The Booty Shot
If you’re looking to really pull him in, and aren’t too concerned about appearing “casual”, go with the laying down butt shot. This is best when done in yoga pants or your favorite pair of jeans… but hey, if you’re a risk-taker, go with those lacy boy shorts! It will definitely catch his eye when he opens up a random Snap to see a perky butt waiting for him. But beware, this shot is totally obvious that you’re beyond DTF.
As you know,pictures can be saved through a simple screenshot or even replayed. Replaying can be turned off in your settings, but unfortunately, there’s no block for screenshots. Don’t post anything that you wouldn’t want to end up on Facebook. Even sexy shots of you in the tub can be totally PG and classy! If you’re okay with having a naughty image, go for it! But don’t expect SnapChat photos to always be private. Screenshots can, and do, happen – no matter how much you trust them!
Seductive Snaps can help both single sluts and the sluts in relationships, as it keep things interesting and adds a unique spark that you can’t get from sexting alone. It’s convenient, simple, and easy to use – although by no means a fool proof way to keep photos private. Experiment with your angles, know what you’re comfortable with, and know what you’re looking to portray. Have fun, and flaunt what you got!