What does it take to be a slut? A real slut doesn’t let anything stop them from reaching their goals. But what are their goals? Sex and fun. They know what they want and they go after it when they want, regardless of who or what stands in their way. If this sounds like you, you might already be a slut.To do this, they need to be confident and self- assured. That can be trickier than it might seem, so in this slut training guide we’ll  go over some tips on how to be a good slut.

 

1. Let’s start with some real slutty behavior. Every day, come up with five things you like about yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror, and say them out loud. This may be hard at first, but trust me—it gets easier.

2. Plan what you wear. Pick things that make you feel good and sexy. It doesn’t matter where you go or what you have planned for the day. Look and feel good!

3. The same goes for makeup and hair. If you feel like it will boost your confidence, do your hair and makeup. Feel good. Rock whatever look you’re craving.

 

4. One of the most important parts of learning how to be a good slut is setting boundaries. Respect yourself. Everywhere. In every situation. No one walks over a slut. A real slut knows their mind and expresses it without fear. Okay… so maybe with a little fear, but they do it anyway.

 

5. Stand up for yourself. If something makes you uncomfortable at work, don’t accept it. Don’t let people take advantage of you! This may be hard at first and it’s going to take practice if you’re not used to it, but this slutty behavior  will get easier.

6. Don’t let the words of others affect you. As a slut, you may in fact be called a slut, or worse. Embrace it. There is nothing wrong with being sexual and knowing what you want and going for it. It isn’t bad to be assertive. Laugh at those who think it is.

Obviously some of these are easier said than done but I’ve got something that’ll help. Our founder, Lorrae Jo, runs an online course all about letting go of shame and removing those subconscious blocks that stop us from embracing our true selves. If you’re ready to step into being your best slutty self, join us for Subvert Your Subconscious!

 

 

7. Be out for yourself in the best way. Real sluts want to enjoy their bodies, their environments, and those who are around them. There is nothing wrong with putting yourself and your needs first in your life.

8. You want that cock or that tail? Get it! Embrace true slutty behavior, don’t hold back. I’m not talking about stripping buck naked in a room of crowded people, but that body you want? Make your intention known. Lick your lips… and theirs. Explore them with your hands, your knee between their legs, your mouth on their neck, teeth on their earlobes… Let others stare. They’re jealous they can’t be as bold as you.

8. On that note… don’t be afraid of some slutty public behavior . Kiss them. Lick the line of tendon up their throat. Grab their ass and put their hand up your skirt. If a slut wants it, a slut gets it. Life is too short to wait, so when you want something- go for it. Anyone who judges you isn’t enjoying themselves nearly as much as you are.

 

 

10. Smile. A lot. Genuinely. It’s a good habit to get into regardless.

11. Ditch your panties. Sometimes you’re gonna want quick, messy sex. You may not be able to undress. By doing this, you have one less thing to worry about. Plus, you’ll feel sexier. Trust me, fam.

 

12.  Skirts. Skiiiiirts. Nothing feels so heart-racingly sexy as the idea that maybe the wind will flash someone, or how easily your significant other has access to what’s under that skirt

 

 

13. Look your significant other in the eye. Hold their gaze. Let them see that heat.

14. Tell them you want them, how you want it, and that you want them here and now. Don’t let them guess. Tell them you want them inside you or you want to be inside them and that it better happen now because guess what? A real slut doesn’t want to wait.

15. Flirt with your body, not just your words. Invest in lollipops or suck on the end of your sunglasses. Put things in your mouth. Twirl your tongue around your straw. Smile. Blow kisses. Be physically close. Let him know you want playtime.

 

 

16. Skin. It’s okay to show it. Own your slutty body. Let people look at you. If anyone judges you, they aren’t comfortable with some aspect of their own sexuality and feel the need to shame others, so just be yourself. Enjoy the moments that you’re creating. You look damn good, babe.

17. Take care of yourself. Hydrate. Eat things that make you feel well. Get enough sleep. Maybe start a gentle exercise routine. If you’re going to be a good slut, you’re going to need energy.

 

18. Lastly, the most important part of how to be a good slut is, learn what makes you happy. If that means going to a nude beach, do it. If it means eating a slab of cake, do it. If it means giving yourself a pedicure, a facial and soaking in the bath for an hour, do it.

 

 

If anyone ever asks you, why do you like being a slut?, you tell them this. A real slut knows what they wants—not just in the sack, but in life, too. Go get it, slut. Live it up!

 

Also join us for Subvert Your Subconscious! The online course to let go of shame and remove the subconscious blocks that prevent us from embracing our most empowered erotic selves. If you’re ready to step into being your best slutty self, you’ll want to be inside.

 

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