What does it take to be a slut? A real slut doesn’t let anything stop her from reaching her goals. But what are her goals? Sex and fun. She knows what she wants and she goes after it when she wants, regardless of who or what stands in her way. To do this, she needs to be confident and self- assured. That can be trickier than it might seem, so let’s go over some tips to slutting up your life.

1. Every day, come up five things you like about yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror, and say them out loud. This may be hard at first, but trust me—it gets easier.

2. Plan what you wear. Pick things that make you feel good and sexy. It doesn’t matter where you go or what you have planned for the day. Look and feel good!

3. The same goes for makeup and hair. If you feel like it will boost your confidence, do your hair and makeup. Feel good. Rock whatever look you’re craving.

4. Respect yourself and your boundaries. Everywhere. In every situation. No one walks over a slut. She knows her mind and expresses it without fear. Okay… so maybe with a little fear, but she does it anyway.

5. Stand up for yourself. If something makes you uncomfortable at work, don’t accept it. Don’t let people take advantage of you! This may be hard at first and it’s going to take practice if you’re not used to it, but it will get easier.

6. Don’t let the words of others affect you. As a slut, you may in fact be called a slut, or worse. Embrace it. There is nothing wrong with being sexual and knowing what you want and going for it. It isn’t bad to be assertive. Laugh at those who think it is.

7. Be out for yourself in the best way. Sluts want to enjoy their bodies, their environments, and those who are around them. There is nothing wrong with putting yourself and your needs first in your life.

8. You want that cock or that tail? Get it? Don’t hold back. I’m not talking about stripping buck naked in a room of crowded people, but that D you want? Make your intention known. Lick your lips and his (or hers). Explore them with your hands, your knee between their legs, your mouth on their neck, teeth on their earlobes… Let others stare. They’re jealous they can’t be as bold as you.

9. On that note… don’t be afraid of some PDA. Kiss him. Lick the line of tendon up his throat. Grab his ass and put his hand up your skirt. If you want it, you get it. Life is too short to wait, so when you want something- go for it. Anyone who judges you isn’t enjoying themselves nearly as much as you are.

10. Smile. A lot. Genuinely. It’s a good habit to get into regardless.

11. Ditch your panties. Sometimes you’re gonna want quick, messy sex. You may not be able to undress. By doing this, you have one less thing to worry about. Plus, you’ll feel sexier. Trust me, fam.

12. Skirts. Skiiiiirts. Nothing feels so heart-racingly sexy as the idea that maybe the wind will flash someone, or how easily your significant other has access to that pussy.

13. Look your significant other in the eye. Hold his gaze. Let him see that heat.

14. Tell him you want him, how you want it, and that you want him here and now. Don’t let him guess. Tell him you want his thick, hard you know what in your you know where and that it better happen now because guess what? You don’t want to wait.

15. Flirt with your body, not just your words. Invest in lollipops or suck on the end of your sunglasses. Put things in your mouth. Twirl your tongue around your straw. Smile. Blow kisses. Be physically close. Let him know you want playtime.

16. Skin. It’s okay to show it. Own your body. Let people look at you. If anyone judges you, they aren’t having fun the way you are, so be yourself. Enjoy the moments that you’re creating. You look damn good, girl.

17. Take care of yourself. Hydrate. Eat things that make you feel well. Get enough sleep. Maybe start a gentle exercise routine. If you’re going to slut it up, you’re going to need energy.

18. Lastly, but most importantly, learn what makes you happy. If that means going to a nude beach, do it. If it means eating a slab of cake, do it. If it means giving yourself a pedicure, a facial and soaking in the bath for an hour, do it.

A slut knows what she wants—not just in the sack, but in life, too. Go get it, slut. Live it up!