A foot fetish is one of the most common kinks. Simply, a lot of people are into feet! But how can you play into this for your foot-loving partner? You’ve nailed giving a blow job, but how do you give a “foot job”? 

I personally have had two partners who loved my feet and were eager to experience a foot job. But, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing (at first). Thankfully, I had a partner who was willing to teach me what to do with my feet and my toes for their, and my, pleasure. 

Here are the kinkiest foot job tips to get your partner off every time, with just your feet! 


A woman's feet crossed on the arm of a couch with glitter sprinkled on the bottom.



1. Lube, lube, and more lube!

I know that this seems like a weird thing to put as my first tip for a foot job, but I swear, it’s very important. 

Whenever a sensitive part of a body meets a part of someone else’s, friction is created. Trust me, friction on your feet does not feel good (let alone friction on your partner’s penis). 

I recommend a water-based lube as it will last a long time without getting your feet too sticky, and it will allow your feet to glide over your partner’s penis. Apply it liberally to wherever the friction is going to occur. The lubricant will make the experience much more pleasurable for both of you.


A woman laying naked in bed with her legs and feet stretched out.


2. Keep your feet together

The easiest and best foot job position is one where you keep your feet together. 

My man always seems to like it when I put his penis in the crook of my feet where my toes and the balls of my feet meet. There are other ways to give a foot job, but this way allows for plenty of toe wiggling, which is pleasurable and a beautiful sight to see. 

You can even use your soles and toes to cup your partner’s balls for extra sensation and pleasure.


A woman's feet with red-painted toes tucked under white bed sheets


3. Don’t forget the toe wiggling

Toe wiggling is a sure-fire way of getting your feet-loving partner going. 

The partners that I have been with who were into feet loved it when I wiggled my toes while giving a foot job. 

As you are moving your feet on their penis, wiggle your toes at different speeds, pressures, and intensities. It gives them a different sensation and some extra visual stimulation, too!


Gif from The Little Mermaid of Ariel wiggling her toes.


4. Move your legs, too

A good foot job is all in how you move your legs. If you move your legs at the hip versus the knee, it will give you a better range of motion and will allow you to be able to go at it longer. 

Try different speeds and tempos until you find what works for you both. You will get tired, but not as fast if you move from the hips.

The technique can be a bit tricky until you’re used to the movements. Try practicing on your favorite wand vibrator or a more life-like dildo to figure out the pace and rhythm before taking it to the bedroom.


A woman's feet clothed in stockings and stretched across the bed.


5. If you get tired, have your partner help you

If you get tired from moving your legs like this (I do pretty frequently), have your partner give you a hand. They can hold your feet and control the motion, pressure, and tempo themselves. 

This is also a great way to get started, so they can show you what they like. There’s something very sexy about watching their muscles tense as he goes to town on your feet. Letting them do it lets them go at their own pace!


Woman's feet dangling off the side of a bathtub with a lit candelabra in the background.


If you’re a little nervous about starting this kind of play with your partner for the first time, why not try sending them a sensual feet pic to gauge interest? You’ll be able to tell right away if your partner’s into the idea!

If you find this to be a new pleasurable outlet, you can even try to sell feet pics on Feet Finder. You might be surprised by how creative and sensual the experience can be!

As with all play, communication is key. Simply ask them what they like, or have them show you. Your partner should also always relay the same courtesy to you. Have fun, and enjoy those toes and soles!



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