Money shot, cumshot, facial, whatever you want to call it – it’s the act of a man ejaculating on your face. The idea can be a bit intimidating (we’ve all heard horror stories about someone ending up with semen in their eye) but it’s a fantasy that many want to try for themselves. It’s just kinky enough to feel naughty, but still commonplace enough that you won’t feel awkward discussing the prospect with your partner.
Why It’s Hot
I polled some of my friends about cumshots, and here’s what they had to say:
“I don’t like to end every sex scenario with a facial, but it’s definitely a good way to amp things up during a particularly steamy session or when I’m feeling extra horny. It’s like having his cum on my face is a little demeaning, but not enough to be actually disrespectful, but still enough that it’s SUPER hot. My face is me and represents who I am, so having my boyfriend “vandalize” that is an act of trust and submission.” (Female, age 24)
“I’m really into visual stimuli, so actually getting to see myself cum is a huge turn-on. The added bonus of having her be into it too is just, oh my god. One of the best things ever.” (Male, age 21)
Working Your Way Up to It
If you’re comfortable going straight for it, you go girl! But if you’re a gal who’s more nervous, shy, or just unsure if a facial is something you’re into – offer your guy another place to finish instead, and advance at your own pace to a full-on facefull. If he’s never came on your body before (and even if he has), he’s going to be excited and happy no matter where you suggest! You can start out by asking him to finish on your thighs, stomach, breasts, or anywhere else if you’re not okay with it happening on your face. If it’s an experience you both enjoy, try something a little more risqué during your next encounter.
While It’s Happening
Verbalize. “I want you to cum on my face.” Nothing is going to sound hotter to your honey than hearing how much you want it. If you’re okay with the possibility of semen in your mouth, keep your mouth open. If that’s something you’d rather avoid, smile at your partner to show that you enjoy what’s happening. It’s probably best to close your eyes, but if you’re a visual kind of gal, keep them open at your own risk. If you’re not using your hands on your partner, feel free to play with yourself instead.
After the Fact
Wipe or wash your face, use moist towlettes, have a shower – do what you gotta do to freshen up. Be a lady about it though, there’s no need to act disgusted. Even if the sensation is unpleasant to you, you’re going to end up offending your hookup if you make a show out of how gross it is. If you don’t have an easily accessible bathroom, prepare beforehand and have something within reach for yourself to wipe off with, so you’re not scrambling later; just a Kleenex may not cut it for you. (But do have Kleenex handy, in the event that you end up with any in your nose and need to blow it out!) If it ends up in your hair, you’ll probably have to shower.
Looking for a wipe to clean up? We recommend this one by Aneros!
Slutty Girl Pro Tip: Wash your face with cold water rather than hot, for easier cleanup. Hot water reacts with the proteins found in semen and causes it to solidify slightly and become more difficult to remove.
What to Do When It Gets in Your Eyes
The easiest way to avoid an eyeful of semen is to simply keep your eyes closed and clean away anything in the general vicinity of your eyes before opening them again. Other ways to avoid this painful fate could be by wearing glasses (as opposed to contacts) or by “aiming” only on the lower half of your face. And for the love of all things slutty, ask your partner to warn you when he’s close! But if for whatever reason, the unthinkable happens, here’s what to do:
- Wipe away the semen with a wet washcloth and flush your eye with water (don’t forget to take out contacts first). Rotate your eye as you flush it to ensure that all residue is removed.
- If you have saline or eye-drops available, bathe your eye for slight relief from the stinging sensation, as well as for additional sanitation.
- Get tested for STIs at your earliest convenience. Although transmission is unlikely, it is still possible. Your eyes are a mucus membrane just like your genitals are, so a virus can enter your body and cause an infection.
Despite having issued all this advice though, the best tip is to not overthink it. It’s a pretty simple act when it comes down to it; just let it happen and have fun!
How do you feel about facials? Super hot, not into it at all, or just meh? Let us know in the comments!