May is National Masturbation Month! To celebrate this, perhaps the best of all sex holidays, we’ve compiled an awesome gift guide. Hook up your S.O. or bestie, send this along to your partner for ideas, or indulge in plenty of self-love with some of these awesome toys and masturbation necessities!

Embrace Pleasure with plusOne!

The pleasure curators at plusOne believe that sexual wellness should be available to everyone, and we couldn’t agree more. We’re in sync about empowering women – and even better? plusOne is committed to delivering high-quality pleasure products at affordable prices, in convenient and accessible ways. You can event get their line at Walmart, and they recently launched at Target! So next time you go on a Target run for laundry detergent, you’ll find your cart full of affordable vibes buzzing you through checkout.

Check out some of these sexy and effortlessly pleasurable products from plusOne!

Vibrating Bullet

If you’re looking for your first “toy” or a trusty classic look no further. The plusOne vibrating bullet is small but powerful. Made with body-safe materials and a rechargeable lithium ion battery you’ll have hours of fun on a single charge. With one button you can turn on and explore 10 different vibration settings. The plusOne bullet is fully waterproof and quiet enough to use anywhere.

Get it at plusOne!

Vibrating Ring

Looking to spice things up? The plusOne vibrating ring is the perfect new addition to your bedroom. The snug-fitting ring enhances his size while adding sensual vibrations for both partners. The inviting plusOne ring is made of super stretchy body safe silicone which comfortably stretches around his shaft so you can enjoy the 10 vibration settings sure to enhance any encounter. The fully waterproof ring can be used for many positions including play in the bath or shower. The powerful lithium ion rechargeable battery will provide up to 2 hours of fun on a single charge!

Get it at plusOne!

Dual Vibrating Massager

PlusOne’s dual vibrating massager brings pleasure to a new level. With two motors and independently vibrating tips, it’s versatile with a setting for every mood. Whisper quiet with super soft body-safe silicone, this velvety dildo will excite you both inside and out. The plusOne rabbit is fully waterproof for use anywhere, even the bathtub or shower! Complete with a rechargeable lithium ion battery for up to 3 hours of fun!

Get it at plusOne!

Celebrate Luxuriously with The White Unicorn

The White Unicorn is a for women by women pleasure shop. Their aim? Breaking stereotypes and the stigma around female sexuality, which we are all about! The White Unicorn offers high quality, body safe pleasure products at every price point, whether you’re looking for something affordable or want to treat yo’ self. The White Unicorn also offers fun and festival-worthy clothes, lingerie, fantasy and party gear, so you’ll want to shop there long after Masturbation May is over! Because they’re run by women, all of their products are chosen from a woman’s perspective. That means not only is everything absolutely gorgeous, but you can find tons of natural and organic products that are body-safe! The White Unicorn says, “We care what we put in our bodies and only offer you the highest quality products free of parabens and toxic chemicals.”

Use code SluttyGirl to get 15% OFF
all Adult Toys at The White Unicorn.

Looking for inspo? Here are some great toys to treat yourself to from The White Unicorn:

Satisfyer Luxury Pret-A-Porter

In supple and elegant fashion, the ring of ultra soft, medical grade liquid silicone surrounds your pleasure bead and caresses it with the usual breath taking Satisfyer pressure wave stimulation. Its intuitive controls let you choose your favorites from 11 different intensity settings and enjoy the heavenly feeling of non-contact clitoral stimulation. The ergonomic shape of the Satisfyer Luxury Pret-A-Porter sits comfortably in your hand, while the refined upper in sensuously structured leather will make you feel like a queen. The rose gold colored elements made of precious metal and the silky, matte body in tender pink complete the luxurious design perfectly.

Get it at The White Unicorn!

Premium Jack Rabbit Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit

Elegantly designed for the ultimate in gratification. Revel in the luxurious feel and the pure pleasure you will achieve. An ultra power motor means this toy is specially designed for the most intense experience.  For peak gratification, powerful thrusts equal powerful pleasure.

Get it at The White Unicorn!

Fin Finger Vibrator

Fin is a small, versatile vibrator worn between the fingers to add stimulating vibration to touch. Fins optional tether, dual sensations, and three speeds allow you to choose your own adventure! Seamless to wear and easy to remove, Fin is great for foreplay, sex, or solo use. Fit Fins tether is made of stretchy silicone, and fits a variety of hands and fingers. We tested Fin on all kinds of people, ring sizes 4 to 12.

Fin has a removable tether and a two-sided bulb: one side is flat and squishy, while the other side is pointier. You can hold it at the tips of your fingers, the base of your palm, or anywhere in between. You can also let the vibrations travel through your fingers by flipping Fin to the back of your hand. Easy to wear, easy to remove, easy to switch, easy to charge, easy to please.

Get it at The White Unicorn!

Love Yourself Right with LELO!

LELO has some of our favorite toys all year round, and especially so during this month of self-love! One of our favorites: The SONA Cruise! The SONA Cruise, like some other LELO toys, features Cruise Control:

What’s amazing about the Cruise is that it has cruise control. Ever set your vibe to the highest setting and still feel like you need more? You press the toy against you, desperate for that extra pressure. When you do this with the SONA Cruise, it automatically senses what you want and pushes in that extra 20%. This is not the first time I’ve found this feature in a LELO toy, and yet again, it amazes me! Read our full review here!

There are plenty more amazing toys at LELO. Be sure to check out all they have to offer! Start by checking out the bestsellers.

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Kinky Girls LOVE the Neon Wand from Slightly Legal Toys!

The Neon Wand is a visually stunning way to stimulate your senses. With its gorgeous, glowing glass attachments and its unique ability to literally make sparks fly to your skin! Check out at Slightly Legal Toys for more info, along with their newly re-designed website!

Use code KinkyGirlProbs for 50% OFF
all extra Neon Wand attachments.
(Yes, including the Electro Whip!)

Indigo Honey

Bullet vibes are adorable slices of orgasmic heaven. Whether you’re a beginner or a sex toy expert, bullets are fun to collect, provide fantastic external stimulation, and take up next to zero space in your toy drawer. has a great selection of rechargeable and waterproof bullets that will knock your socks off.

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Check out awesome toys by category:
Affiliate DealsBeginners | Power Queens | Size Queens
For Him | Backdoor Play | Unique Design | Gift a Friend

Affiliate Deals

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  • Lovehoney – Just for our readers – 15% OFF everything at Lovehoney all month long! Plus, shop these amazing deals: 25% OFF when you buy 2 Fleshlights. – 10% OFF Tenga Male Masturbators. – 10% OFF King Cock dildos. – 20% OFF LELO bestsellers.
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For Beginners


While it’s tip can be inserted, this vibe is much more effective at external clitoral stimulation, and will have you reaching orgasm in no time. It’s elegant appearance is matched by next-level charging and a display style case. If you’re looking for a top-of-the-line toy to bring into your life, I definitely recommend the Tori!

Buy it at Good Vibes for $140 or check out our review!

Lust L2.5

This small, budget-friendly vibe is the perfect travel companion and has a powerful motor designed to please. Its size and simplicity makes it perfect for girls just venturing into the world of sex toys.

Buy it at The White Unicorn for $60 and read our review!

For Power Queens

Doxy Die Cast Massager

The Doxy Die Cast Massager is kind of vibrator you reach for when you’ve gone through all your strongest vibrators, and still want something more powerful. Just like it’s predecessor, but even more powerful – it’s the kind of vibe that they use in forced-orgasm porn, because you literally cannot escape it’s vibrations or mentally / physically prevent yourself from having an orgasm within a few minutes of it resting against your clit. It’s absolutely insane.

Get it at SheVibe for $190 and read our review!

LELO Mona 2

The LELO Mona 2 is truly a lovely luxury vibrator that I would recommend to absolutely everyone. The design absolutely divine, plus it’s sleek, discreet, easy to use, waterproof, easy to charge, and comes in a chic box with a lube, warranty, and satin storage pouch. The vibrations are rumbly and powerful, and the curved design is perfect for hitting your g-spot without any discomfort. The variety of speeds and patterns is a fabulous treat, and will please beginners and experienced toy users alike. With the Mona 2, LELO has crafted a gorgeous toy that’s luxurious and pleasurable all in one.

Get it at LELO for $169 and read our review!


Whether you’re looking for a vibrator that can make you climax in a matter of seconds or one your partner can use to tease you in the best of ways, the Zumio is perfect! With a unique design and intense vibes, this toy promises a variety of sensations for each external area of the vagina. This is one I’d recommend EVERY girl have in her collection!

Get it at SheVibe for $140 and don’t miss our review!

Hot Octopuss The Queen Bee

The Queen Bee is totally a next-level, luxurious clit stimulator with a totally unique piston-motion thats very powerful. Hot Octopuss has stepped up their game by making a toy so unique and easy-to-use, all with high-end features. I definitely feel this high quality toy is worth every penny!

Get it at GoodVibes for $119 and read our review here!

We-Vibe Tango

I am in love with the We-Vibe Tango. It makes my clit happy. It makes my knees shake. It soothes my soul. It’s the strongest, rumbliest, most high-quality vibrator I’ve found for that size. You can also use it inside any dildo that takes a small bullet vibe, to turn it into a vibrator.

Get it at Good Vibrations for $80 and read our review!

Sensual Touch Wand Massager

Whether you’re a newbie looking for a high-quality body wand to explore different sensations or an experienced sex toy user, the Sensual Touch Body Massager is a great choice! With a unique design made for effortless control and range of powerful vibration settings, this toy is one sure to bring you to orgasmic bliss.

Buy it at Adam & Eve for $70 and read our review!

The Original Magic Wand

The Hitachi Magic Wand scoffs at other vibrators, maintaining it’s position as the all-powerful, while other vibrators merely quiver in comparison. If my toy box was a cheesy teen movie, all my vibrators would stop talking and turn to stare as the Hitachi slow-motion buzzed into the room.

Get it at Adam & Eve for $80 and check out our popular review!

Lovelife Cuddle

I feel that the Cuddle would suit any beginner or expert in the sex toy field, mostly due to that fact that there are six different intensities and you can find the right one for yourself. The Cuddle is easy to use and is very user friendly.

Read our review!

For Size Queens

The Classic Rabbit Crystalized

If you’re looking for a high-quality rabbit vibrator to get you off time after time, this toy may be your match! Made from body-safe silicone, it features a sizable shaft in terms of girth, two independent motors, a variety of patterns, and unique “whiskers” for added sensation. Plus, it’s pretty design and blinged out handle gives it an even more high-end feel. I’d recommend The Classic Rabbit Crystalized to any experienced gal!

Buy it at SheVibe for $170 and read our review!

Njoy Pure Wand

 The smaller end is very comfortable and would be easy to insert, even for beginners. The larger end might be a bit more tricky, and better suited for experienced users or those who prefer more girth. The length of the handle is thinner than the smallest bulb. The design of this toy makes it great for intimate partner play, as it is able to stimulate both males and females – and can be used solo or with a partner.

Get it at Good Vibrations for $110 and check out our review.

Lovehoney Desire Luxury

I am obsessed with this toy. There are over 90 different vibration pattern and intensity combinations to explore, and with a 60 minute usage time between recharges, you’ll have plenty of time to try them all out. I was very worried it would be too large, but it fit fine within me, and was very comfortable and perfect for hitting my g-spot. I would recommend using the tip of the vibrator on your clit before inserting, and as always, use lube a water-based lube.

Get it at Lovehoney for $80 and read our review!

For Him

Pulse III Duo

The Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo is by far the best male toy my partner has tried so far. The vibrations really put him over the edge, and the high-quality features are really a breath of fresh air in a toy industry that tends to put men’s pleasure to the side. We love how it can fit a variety of sizes, without feeling like he has to squeeze in – and it feels nice in a variety of ways, either solo or with a partner.

Buy it at Lovehoney for $150 and check out our review!

The Fleshlight

The Fleshlight is for a lonely night, blue balls, causal masturbation sessions. Specifically, the STU (Stamina Training Unit) is literally your best friend if you’re in need of improving your stamina. Each product is made with their patented Super Skin Material material to mirror the feel of the “mouth, butt or the lady.” With 26 styles ranging from porn star inspired (with various different shapes, sizes, and internal textures) to Frankenstein to alien to zombie Dracula to Cyborg pussy. Not to mention mouths and bootyholes that come in all shapes, sizes and species. Fleshlight made sure to accommodate all tastes and fetishes.

Get it at Good Vibrations for $84 and read our review!

Aneros MGX Trident Prostate Stimulator

Overall, my partner loved the Aneros MGX, and I especially loved joining the experience. If you are looking for a toy that is specifically designed to target your prostate, the Aneros is ready to please. And if you’re a partner who wants to get in on the action and learn more about the levels of your partner’s pleasure — this toy is absolutely perfect. The MGX Trident is easy to use and incredibly satisfying for both the beginners and experts! I strongly suggest this toy to anyone in search of a prostate stimulator, and definitely plan on using this in the future with my partner. Enjoy!

Get it at Lovehoney for $55 and read our review!

For Backdoor Play

Lovense Hush Butt Plug

Baby got back! Lovense’s Hush is a perfect addition to your bedside drawer of goodies whether you are looking to just add some extra spice to anal play or if you’re reconnecting with a long-distance partner. Also, if you love some “me time” with your booty, in bed or in the shower, this toy is golden. I mean c’mon. A Bluetooth toy, interactive app, syncs to your music and 100% hands-free? What more could you want from a butt plug?

Get it at Lovehoney for $139.99 and read our review!

Club Vibe 3.oh Hero

This is a great butt plug for anyone, beginners or butt sluts alike! The remote control aspect is great and makes for I-can-not-get-a-hand-cramp style play. Now you can use one hand to play with your other goodies and one to hold your partner/phone. The remote control doesn’t lose charge quickly, nor does the unit itself.

Read our review!

Njoy Pure Plug

The Pure Plug is by far my favorite anal toy that I’ve ever tried. It’s really a wonderful toy for all types of anal pleasure, regardless of the sensations you enjoy. Njoy did an amazing job with the design of the Pure Plug, whether you like thrusting, rocking, or a massaging motion. This toy is the perfect addition to any avid sex toy user’s pleasure chest, and I would absolutely highly recommend it!

Get it at GoodVibes for $65. Read our review.

Tantus Starter Dildo

Every time I try something from Tantus, I say that it’s my new favorite toy. The Starter followed suit and opened me up to a word of anal adventure. I’m definitely less intimidated by the idea of anal sex now, and even if I don’t explore that avenue anytime soon, I’m glad I got to experience this toy and definitely will come back for more.

Get it at Tantus for $27 and check our our review.

Unique Design

Womanizer Pro W500 (Deluxe)

I loved the two new levels of vibration and suction intensity in this updated version of the Womanizer, and the fact that the second head is now larger is fantastic. If you don’t already have a Womanizer original, need the option of a larger silicone head, or crave the added power of additional settings, I would recommend this toy as its unique sensations can’t be matched!

Get it at The White Unicorn for $220 and read our review!



I can’t say enough how much I love this product. It’s absolutely stunning and high class. I felt so fancy and sensual opening it, and have never felt so pleased with my first impressions of a sex toy – and this vibrator exceeded every single expectation I had. I am seriously obsessed. As someone who has trouble orgasming from solely penetration, his toy has changed masturbation for me. It is revolutionary in many ways, but how it made me feel about my body, confidence within myself, and genuinely making me feel sexy, I adore this product.

Get it at Mystery Vibe for $150 and read our review!

Sense Max SenseVibe Warm

I’m obsessed with the Sense Max SenseVibe Warm. This heated toy is perfect for self indulgence, and it’s become my new favorite. It’s quiet, discreet, and so luxurious. I can’t imagine getting over it any time soon.

Get it at SheVibe for $149 and read our review!

Fun Factory Volta

I am obsessed. The Fun Factory Volta is so unique. It has become my favorite toy for solo sex, and I can see myself using this with a partner in the future because it’s so freakin’ versatile. I highly recommend this vibrator and believe that it’s worth every penny. Body-safe, waterproof, and powerful – what more could I want?

Get it at GoodVibes for $140 and read our review!

TENGA Minamo

Have you ever slept on a memory foam bed? Now, imagine it as a vibrator. Cue Minamo from TENGA iroha. This “elongated luxury massager” is one of the most beautiful vibrators. I’m not just talking about its cute, blue, sleek design. It’s also incredibly soft to the touch, and gives off some smooth vibrations. It is so good that when I say you deserve something special, Minamo is exactly what I’m talking about.

Buy it at Good Vibes for $130 and don’t miss our review!

Clandestine Mimic

I love Clandestine’s Mimic. It’s gorgeous and, well, clandestine. I love that no one will find out that I’m enjoying some “me time” when I use this toy!

Get it at SheVibe for $99. Read our review.

Vibratex Rechargeable Mystic Wand

With a curved, user-friendly design and range of vibrations, the Mystic is great for all levels of sex toy users and power-seekers. Its modern look is matched by a soft feel that brings about wondrous sensations while in use. Whether to arouse or simply relax an area of the body, this external body wand is a must-have in your collection!

Get it at SheVibe for $70. Read our review.

Crave Vesper Necklace

There are a lot of pleasure products on the market, but the best ones help us experience new levels of sensual satisfaction in unique ways. And that’s exactly what the Crave Vesper sets out to do! Blurring the lines of public and private, this sophisticated, high-quality necklace is the perfect accessory, and also a powerful external vibrator aimed to fulfill desires.

Buy it at Good Vibes starting at $69 and check out our review!

To Gift a Friend

Bijoux Indescrets Vibrating Diamond

Adorable and playful, this vibe, which fits perfectly in the palm of my hand, is so much more than a silly novelty – it’s a quality vibrator!

Get it at Bijoux Indescrets for $60. Read our review.

The Emojibator

I didn’t look into what actually was running this thing until after my second use, and I was shocked to realize that it was running on watch batteries (which came included). Based on the tiny, slim design, that makes sense. However, the vibes are stronger than I would expect with what I would assume is little power! This toy is by no means built for a power queen, but I’m still able to enjoy it. Vibes are low to mid-level, and while I like more for clitoral stimulation, it’s the perfect tease, and with the benefit of the curve gets me off internally. There are ten modes – a variety of steady vibrations and pulses – and the stem acts as a power button and switch to click between the different settings.

Get it at The White Unicorn for $29 and read our review.

Emojibator Banana

This toy will have you singing, “This sh*t is bananas!” The Banana Emojibator might give off “For Novelty Use Only” vibes with it’s fun and cheeky design, but it’s actually a high-quality toy made from nice, body-safe silicone with a waterproof seal.  It is so much more than just a bit of fun. It makes the perfect gift, whether that’s for yourself or someone else. In my opinion, it definitely lives up to the hype, especially for the price point. I enjoyed a few laughs and mild orgasms with this toy, and while those who crave power or size need to look elsewhere, I’ll be more than happy to use this toy, again and again, to warm me up, and show to friends and partners for a few laughs.

Get it at GoodVibes for $29 and read our review!

Blush The Collection XOXO

Searching for the perfect beginner’s bullet? Look no further. The Collection XOXO by Blush is just that.

Get it at SheVibe for $15 and read our review!

Must-Have Add-Ons!

WARM Toy Heating System

Temperature play is fun, and even moreso when it’s with your favorite vibrator. Now, you can enjoy the added sensation of heat with virtually any toy you like with WARM, the innovative heating system that gently heats your favorite toys to enhance sensual play sessions. I was blown away by its lovely, low-key design, and loved that all the features worked even better than they sounded.

Buy it at Warm for $149 and check out our review!

System JO H2O

This lubricant is amazing and I can’t recommend it enough. I haven’t tried it anally yet, and that’s next on my list. With a line full of variety and body-safe products, JO is definitely the brand to check out.

Read our review.

Swiss Navy Silicone Lubricant

As a lubricant, silicone is long-lasting, silky smooth, and leaves skin feeling soft and moisturized. Swiss Navy’s silicone lubricant is a phenomenal long lasting lube – whether you’re using it for foreplay, intercourse, anal sex, or play with (non-silicone) toys. With this lube, you don’t have to worry about reaching for more.

Read our review!

Have the most marvelous time this Masturbation May!


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